COMPANY PLAYBOOK
Bending Spoons
System principles
- Do not hide contentious expectations; write them down before hiring.
- Grant freedom in decisions and growth while keeping outcomes and boundary-setting with the individual.
- Use judgment, visible cost and retrospective learning instead of prior approval.
- Treat benefits as investments in employee effectiveness rather than gestures.
Tensions and trade-offs
- A high bar and hard work can produce exceptional output, but are not for everyone and may shift sustainability burden to the individual.
- Radical candor accelerates learning but can erode trust when empathy and power balance are weak.
- Approval-free spending and flexibility reduce bureaucracy but require sound judgment, transparency and credible retrospective review.
- A standardized selection system improves consistency but can scale a narrow definition of success and assessment bias.
PRACTICES
How Bending Spoons builds its operating system
The Great Spooner standard
Expected behavior is defined through ten explicit traits spanning ownership, judgment, simplification and coaching.
- How it works
- Ownership, pragmatism, teamwork, judgment, simplification, invention, deep knowledge, positive energy, high standards and coaching form one behavioral framework.
- Why it is used
- Creates an observable development language instead of abstract culture fit.
- Trade-off
- If all ten traits become simultaneous norms, they can flatten role differences and create a persistent sense of inadequacy.
- Best fit
- Teams able to use the same behavioral language across hiring, feedback and development.
Writing down controversial principles
Nine principles likely to trigger disagreement become an explicit contract for hiring and daily decisions.
- How it works
- Nine contentious principles—including uncompromising excellence, talent priority, hard work, pragmatism and individual boundary ownership—are explained separately. Dissent is invited; without new information the decision is reaffirmed and commitment is expected.
- Why it is used
- Lets candidates self-select knowingly and reduces repeated reopening of foundational debates.
- Trade-off
- A “commit or leave” closure can weaken legitimate minority views and psychological safety.
- Best fit
- Organizations with genuine hard cultural choices whose leaders openly own their costs.
Radical candor
Feedback is fast, direct, empathetic and actionable, and leaders are subject to the same candor.
- How it works
- Feedback goes directly to the person, quickly, with rational grounds, concrete examples, empathy and an action suggestion. Avoiding candor is itself feedback-worthy.
- Why it is used
- Intervenes before issues compound and shortens the learning loop.
- Trade-off
- An expectation of emotional resilience can be used to normalize poorly delivered harshness.
- Best fit
- Cultures where feedback is reciprocal, leaders can be challenged and behavior is separated from identity.
Slack closed by default
Messages are processed in planned batches while urgent matters move to a separate, reliable channel.
- How it works
- Slack is not kept open all day; messages are handled in set windows, notifications are constrained and genuine emergencies move to a separate channel such as phone.
- Why it is used
- Protects deep work and uninterrupted reasoning.
- Trade-off
- Can delay responses and reduce visibility; coordination suffers without shared urgency definitions and channel expectations.
- Best fit
- Knowledge work requiring long focus blocks, explicit ownership and a reliable urgent channel.
Starting strong
The first period combines explicit expectations, intensive context, early feedback and progressively larger responsibility.
- How it works
- New hires receive cultural and role context quickly, with frequent early feedback, active relationship-building and progressively larger responsibility.
- Why it is used
- Converts potential identified in selection into real productivity faster.
- Trade-off
- An intensive start can create information overload and early performance pressure if reflection and adjustment time are insufficient.
- Best fit
- Teams with written expectations, strong coaching capacity and timely early feedback.
Multi-stage selection process
Candidates are assessed for consistent work signal across standardized tests, tasks and interviews.
- How it works
- Selection combines signal from standardized cognitive and craft assessments, tasks and multiple interviews. Learning speed, judgment and potential matter more than tenure.
- Why it is used
- Aims to select, through comparable evidence, candidates who can take substantial responsibility early.
- Trade-off
- A long, assessment-heavy process raises candidate cost and can confuse test performance with job performance.
- Best fit
- Roles where high selectivity is economical and job relevance of assessments is regularly validated.
High fixed pay and explicit benefits
Total reward combines strong fixed pay, role-relevant benefit choices and long-term commitment components.
- How it works
- Pay combines a strong fixed base, reviews based on individual effectiveness and market, benefit choices and for some offers a sign-on award vesting over 48 months. The document gives examples of €63,965 for a junior software engineer and €143,330+ for senior, with no stated ceiling.
- Why it is used
- Rewards sustained impact and long-term commitment rather than short-term target bonuses.
- Trade-off
- High individual differentiation can strain perceived fairness, while sign-on vesting creates an exit cost.
- Best fit
- Companies able to explain effectiveness criteria, calibrate pay decisions and sustain strong cash economics.
Choosing on-site and remote work by task
Work location is not an ideological default; it is chosen around collaboration needs, individual effectiveness and team conditions.
- How it works
- On-site and remote choices consider collaboration intensity, individual effectiveness, team setup and legal constraints together.
- Why it is used
- Builds a context-appropriate arrangement for productivity and collaboration instead of a uniform location rule.
- Trade-off
- Flexibility varying by person and role can create perceived inequity and coordination complexity.
- Best fit
- Hybrid organizations able to distinguish work types and assess performance through outcomes rather than visibility.
End-to-end travel and relocation support
Visas, moving, temporary housing, insurance, an interest-free loan and a local buddy form one relocation system.
- How it works
- The company covers visas and immigration, moving, insurance, customs, storage, up to four months of temporary housing, a local buddy and a €10,000 / £10,000 interest-free relocation loan.
- Why it is used
- Lowers the logistical and uncertainty cost of international hiring and helps the employee focus on the role sooner.
- Trade-off
- It is expensive, may privilege certain locations and the loan can increase perceived dependence on the employer.
- Best fit
- Companies relocating critical international talent with immigration and People Operations capacity.
Approval-free learning investment
People invest company time and capital without prior approval; review happens afterward for learning.
- How it works
- Books, courses, workshops and work time for learning require no prior approval. The individual judges whether impact will exceed time and capital cost; spending is reviewed later, good-faith mistakes are not punished and learning is shared.
- Why it is used
- Removes approval latency, strengthens adult judgment and turns individual experiments into organizational knowledge.
- Trade-off
- Access, willingness to spend and the definition of “productive learning” may differ across people.
- Best fit
- Teams with high trust, cost visibility, retrospective review and a culture of learning from mistakes.
Inclusive parental support
Flexible fully paid leave is paired with family-planning and childcare funding regardless of identity.
- How it works
- After statutory provisions, reasonably unlimited leave at 100% gross pay is paired with 70% funding from a €10,000 lifetime family-planning budget and €10,000 annual childcare budget. Support is independent of gender, orientation and relationship status.
- Why it is used
- Reduces the career impact of parenthood and the care cost required to make work possible.
- Trade-off
- Ambiguity around “reasonable” duration and manager-specific norms can create de facto inequity; 70% funding still leaves an access gap.
- Best fit
- Companies supporting the policy not only with budget but also job protection and a credible usage culture.
Embedding EDI across the people and product chain
Inclusion is operationalized through nine commitments spanning attraction, selection, pay, benefits, workplace, product and stakeholder communication.
- How it works
- Nine commitments span outreach to underrepresented applicants, bias-aware selection, pay and effectiveness review, inclusive benefits, product language and stakeholder communication.
- Why it is used
- Moves EDI beyond a hiring target and distributes it across the employee and product lifecycle.
- Trade-off
- A short commitment list can remain aspirational without published measures, owners and outcomes.
- Best fit
- Organizations tying commitments to process metrics, accountable roles and regular outcome review.